Four Reasons Why Women Dump Men
There are four reasons why women split up with men. With as little as one of these things in the relationship, the woman will eventually leave the man. We will discuss the four key reasons as to why women leave men so that you can examine your own relationship and conclude if it is at danger.
The first factor is control, which is a something that could either come from the man or woman. When a man or woman is controlling, they will drive their partner away from them, even if the relationship is otherwise great. Women unquestionably relish their independence; so make sure you give her the chance to be independent every now and again. It is to say that women need room to breath once in a while; there are times when women do things that only a woman should do. For example, going out with her friends for coffee and "girl talk." There may be no logic to it, but these outings are necessary for the woman to relax.
The second reason is jealousy. Nothing is more hurtful to a relationship than a jealous man spying on his woman and what she is doing. Jealous is a control problem that must be dealt with. The woman will be driven away if you have outbreaks of jealousy. When you let jealousy rear it's head, you are doubting her love and her fidelity. With each display of jealousy, the man is hurting their relationship.
The next cause is that the woman does not want a man that is a push-over, since women tend to be most attracted to confident men that stand up for themselves (and their women). The woman is seeking a man that can run the show and not someone that is always looking to someone else for direction. A woman desires someone that is protective and that she can count on to stand up for her. So get in the habit of taking the lead and quit being so indecisive whenever you are making plans.
The first factor is control, which is a something that could either come from the man or woman. When a man or woman is controlling, they will drive their partner away from them, even if the relationship is otherwise great. Women unquestionably relish their independence; so make sure you give her the chance to be independent every now and again. It is to say that women need room to breath once in a while; there are times when women do things that only a woman should do. For example, going out with her friends for coffee and "girl talk." There may be no logic to it, but these outings are necessary for the woman to relax.
The second reason is jealousy. Nothing is more hurtful to a relationship than a jealous man spying on his woman and what she is doing. Jealous is a control problem that must be dealt with. The woman will be driven away if you have outbreaks of jealousy. When you let jealousy rear it's head, you are doubting her love and her fidelity. With each display of jealousy, the man is hurting their relationship.
The next cause is that the woman does not want a man that is a push-over, since women tend to be most attracted to confident men that stand up for themselves (and their women). The woman is seeking a man that can run the show and not someone that is always looking to someone else for direction. A woman desires someone that is protective and that she can count on to stand up for her. So get in the habit of taking the lead and quit being so indecisive whenever you are making plans.
The last cause of breakups is that no one enjoys living with a bum. A woman needs to be loved and needs the security and protection that only a man can provide. If you just waste your life sitting on the couch watching TV or playing video games you woman probably resents this. Focus on finding something you can devote your life to and get extremely passionate about it. When a man has a solid goal and is constantly working toward it, it somehow makes his woman feel incredibly devoted and committed to him. The woman likes to rave about how wonderful her man is and how exciting he is. She'll never do this if you're not doing anything with your life.
If you can handle these four aspects of your relationship then you will have a long healthy relationship with any woman. Whether you want a relationship now or not, if you have any of the characteristics of the four listed above, you will seriously struggle to find a happy relationship.
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